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It might seem like one person is getting all the pleasure as the
other gives it-this is not true; each gives to the other and to
himself: one gives his penis, the other his mouth; one gives his
trust, the other his care; one feels the warm, caressing mouth, the
other feels the strong, warm penis-and all are pleasing. It's true
that the fellator doesn't always know what to do at first; he might
be confused by old habits, cultural fears, or just
inexperience-prolonged fellatio, like all human sex acts, must be
learned, and learning anything takes time and patience.
There are lots of things to do with your mouth on his penis, like
licking it all over, sucking on it, flicking your tongue tip
rapidly across the top. One of the simplest and nicest actions is
to move your mouth up and down on his penis. This is called
sliding. Make a ring with your lips around the shaft. You'll need a
thick padding of saliva to avoid irritation and give the richest,
warmest sensations-don't be afraid of it, it's in the spirit of mud
pies when you were a kid, and just a fun.You can slide slow or
fast, and take as much penis into your mouth as you like. One neat
action is to slide down as far as you can, and then draw his penis
out slowly while sucking on it, like a peppermint stick.
For a more intense activity, you can slide faster and/or go deeper
with your strokes. And for an even warmer closeness, you can also
fondle and cup his balls in your hand, and add postillioning.
If you and he decide to bring him to orgasm, sliding is a nice way.
If so, he'll probably appreciate stroking as fast and full as you
can.
His experience will get more energetic and intense as he approaches
orgasm. Your sliding will cause the most stimulation if you
encircle your lips firmly around his penis and over the tips of
your teeth. This makes a smooth, snug embrace, and helps avoid nips
and amputations. Move your head up and down as if it were saying
"yes," from just below the top of the penis to as far down as you
like. Meanwhile, keep all the other parts of your mouth as relaxed
as possible (actual "sucking" is not important here). As you go
faster and deeper, get into a regular rhythm. If things start to
get very excited, you can move from your shoulders and upper back
instead of your neck, so that you're bouncing up and down with your
whole upper body. By using these muscles you give more energy to
your strokes and avoid fatigue better.
If you're wary of gagging, you can wrap one hand around the bottom
half of the penis and slide on the top part. If so, it's nice to
move your hand up and down too, doing it so that as your lips move
up to the fraenum, your hand moves down to strike against the bone
just above the penis (called the mons pubis) and also because your
hand pulls the skin tight, which increases sensation. In fact, even
if you don't use your hand too much, you can hold it at the base to
pull the skin tight.
If you're really into giving every inch of goodness possible, you
can add simultaneous sideways motions of your head. First, learn to
do the sliding so it comes easily. Then, as you move up and down,
rotate your head from side to side as if saying "no." The two
motions need to be coordinated, so, for example, as you come up,
turn your head from the center to the right, at the top turn your
head to the left, and as you go down, back to the center.
